A Tale of Two Seders

PreS-Gr 3 - "The year after my mom and dad stopped being married to each other, I went to two seders in two places: one at Dad's apartment, and one at Mom's house," explains a young girl. She describes the six Passover meals that she has shared with her divorced parents over the last three years. Each celebration is unique, with memorable moments such as singing the Four Questions, using a new Haggadah, trying different recipes, meeting Dad's new girlfriend, and enjoying treats like chocolate lollipops and fried matzah. However, the charoset, the traditional dish of apples, nuts, cinnamon, and wine, never tastes quite right, and the girl dreams of her whole family celebrating the holiday together again. When her parents surprise her by joining together at the synagogue's community seder, the girl realizes that her dream has come true. And, as her mother explains to her: "families are like charoset. Some have more ingredients than others, some stick together better]some are sweeter]. But each one is tasty in its own way." Cis's delightful acrylic paintings beautifully complement the text, and four recipes for charoset are appended along with a glossary. After being one of the first to introduce young readers to women rabbis in "Ima on the Bimah" (1986) and to tackle conversion in "Mommy Never Went to Hebrew School" (1989, both Lerner), it is no surprise that Rabbi Portnoy has written this realistic, contemporary story." - Rachel Kamin, North Suburban Synagogue Beth El, Highland Park, IL

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"Mindy Avra Portnoy's A Tale of Two Seders, also offers a different take on the classic family themes of the holiday. The story follows a little girl who after her parents divorce spends one Seder at her mother's and one at her fathers. Over the years the Seders vary and as Valeria Cis's illustrations highlight how the people attending the two Seders are themselves varied. Adding to our sense of possibilities are the four recipes for charoset that are included. This book acknowledges the difficulties that the young protagonist faces, without presenting her situation as a tragedy." —Forward.com