That's What Friends Do

by Cathleen Barnhart (Author)

That's What Friends Do
Reading Level: 4th − 5th Grade

A heartfelt and powerful debut novel for fans of Erin Entrada Kelly and John David Anderson, That's What Friends Do is a book for anyone learning how to have the hard conversations about feelings, boundaries, and what it means to be a true friend.

Samantha Goldstein and David Fisher have been friends ever since they met on their town's Little League baseball team. But when a new kid named Luke starts hanging out with them, what was a comfortable pair becomes an awkward trio. Luke's comments make Sammie feel uncomfortable--but all David sees is how easily Luke flirts with Sammie, and so David decides to finally make a move on the friend he's always had a crush on.

Soon things go all wrong and too far, and Sammie and David are both left feeling hurt, confused, and unsure of themselves, without anyone to talk to about what happened. As rumors start flying around the school, David must try to make things right (if he can) and Sammie must learn to speak up about what's been done to her.

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Gr 5-7--David has decided to reveal his romantic feelings for longtime best friend Samantha--but he senses competition when Luke moves to town, and things get complicated. David leans in to kiss Sammie on the bus in an attempt to challenge Luke's advances; but the bus's motion leads to David accidentally touching Sammie inappropriately, and their friendship suffers. The book alternates between David's and Sammie's viewpoints as both make miscalculations about the incident. David is embarrassed and wants the issue to disappear, and Sammie doesn't speak up about how uncomfortable it made her. Ultimately, their failure to be honest about their feelings causes pain for David, Sammie, and Luke, but their time apart also provides opportunities for them to reassess their friendship and their interests. David would rather be in the art club than on the baseball team. Sammie considers playing softball, a sport she had always considered too girlish. Ultimately, both Sammie and David learn to be honest about what happened on the bus and who they are becoming, with a resolution that feels realistic and age appropriate. VERDICT Readers who are beginning to navigate more complicated emotions and personal boundaries will appreciate this story which deftly handles sensitive topics like inappropriate touching and body autonomy.--Shelley Sommer, Inly School, Scituate, MA

Copyright 2019 School Library Journal, LLC Used with permission.

Review quotes

"A careful introduction to consent and sexual harassment for a middle-grade audience... A worthy, timely, ambitious debut."—Kirkus Reviews
Classification
Fiction
ISBN-13
9780062888945
Lexile Measure
-
Guided Reading Level
-
Publisher
HarperCollins
Publication date
March 16, 2023
Series
-
BISAC categories
JUV039060 - Juvenile Fiction | Social Themes | Friendship
JUV039020 - Juvenile Fiction | Social Themes | Adolescence
JUV039100 - Juvenile Fiction | Social Themes | Peer Pressure
JUV039210 - Juvenile Fiction | Social Themes | Sexual Abuse
Library of Congress categories
Friendship
New York (State)
Families
Family life
Schools
Middle schools
Best friends
Gossip
Infatuation
Consent (Canon law)

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