The Best Way to Get Your Way

by Tanya Lloyd Kyi (Author) Chanelle Nibbelink (Illustrator)

Reading Level: 4th − 5th Grade

An engaging introduction to debating skills that teaches kids how to take a stand - and win!

Kids are used to disagreeing with rules - not that anyone ever listens. But what if there was a way of disagreeing that worked? What if there was a way kids could change adults’ minds? Welcome to debating! This book can help kids master exactly how it’s done. As two debaters on opposing sides tackle each of five hot-button issues - chores, screen time, eating vegetables, bedtime and doing homework - readers follow along, step-by-step, and learn the ins and outs of doing research, constructing an argument and rebutting an opponent’s case. Then, after each debate, readers get to decide which side they’re on - and they just might surprise themselves! It turns out, making a smart and logical argument is a perfect formula for getting your way! What kid can resist?

While everyone else tells kids not to argue, award-winning author Tanya Lloyd Kyi says go for it - the right way - in this lively and thought-provoking book. The well-researched content covers the entire debating process: resolution, opening statement, research, rebuttal and closing argument. It also includes key tips about debating and public speaking, choosing terminology, the importance of deep listening and how to select quality sources. Skills taught - critical thinking, research, media literacy, constructing a persuasive argument - link directly to the social studies inquiry process. Colorful, eye-catching art on every page by Chanelle Nibbelink features a diverse cast of characters and adds visual appeal.

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Kirkus

A quick once-over best for sparking interest in debating, but look elsewhere for a richer treatment.

School Library Journal

Gr 3-5--Let's face it--we all wanna get our way in life. Unfortunately, for kids, their lack of power and agency often means that they must accept rules they find unfair. This book lays out how to debate (and hopefully win!) in a way that's clear and understandable for readers. Each chapter includes two fictional kids arguing either side of a topic like whether kids should go to bed early, or if screen time is positive or negative for children. Each argument, pro or con, is structured the same way: opening statements, presentations of evidence, rebuttals, and closing arguments. Throughout the debates, the narrator discusses some important concepts in effective debate, such as causation vs. correlation, biased sources, logical fallacy, factual accuracy, and repletion. After reading the arguments, kids are encouraged to pick a side based on which argument they believed was the strongest. With a diverse cast and kid-friendly arguments, this is a unique guidebook that empowers all readers to build their debate tenacity. Who knows? Maybe someday they can use it to change the world. VERDICT Distinctive and ideal for its age group, this book would be great for school libraries and classrooms.--Abby Bussen

Copyright 2023 School Library Journal, LLC Used with permission.

Review quotes

A must-read primer for change.—Kirkus Reviews, starred review (Praise for This Is Your Brain on Stereotypes)
Tanya Lloyd Kyi
TANYA LLOYD KYI is the author of more than thirty books for children and young adults, and she is almost always polite. Tanya has worked in the past as a graphic designer, an editor and a dishwasher. (She considers herself entirely qualified for that last one.) Her favorite color is blue, her favorite food is cheese and her favorite book is A Wrinkle in Time. When she's not dreaming up semi-vegan activists, Tanya teaches for the UBC School of Creative Writing in Vancouver, BC.
Classification
Non-fiction
ISBN-13
9781525305481
Lexile Measure
790
Guided Reading Level
-
Publisher
Kids Can Press
Publication date
May 02, 2023
Series
-
BISAC categories
JNF048000 - Juvenile Nonfiction | Reference | General
JNF052040 - Juvenile Nonfiction | Social Science | Sociology
Library of Congress categories
Juvenile works
Reasoning
Debates and debating
JUVENILE NONFICTION / Reference / General
Public speaking
Daebats et controverses
Art de parler en public

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